Ready for the next step on your post-traumatic growth journey?

 Your body is the key to getting there.

Trauma colors our perceptions, feelings, and behaviors in many ways. It can take a heavy toll on your mind, body, and relationships, showing up as:

  • Disproportionate amounts of stress and overwhelm over “little” things 

  • Difficulty relaxing, sleeping, or feeling at ease 

  • Discomfort expressing your needs to others, saying no, or setting boundaries

  • Bursts of panic or rage that seem to come out of nowhere

  • Feeling numb or disconnected, like you’re in a haze while life passes you by 

  • A loud “inner critic” berating you for not being perfect

  • People pleasing and regularly prioritizing other people’s happiness/comfort at the expense of your own

  • A secret shame that something is wrong with you

Trauma makes life harder than it needs to be, and can keep you from experiencing the ease, comfort, joy, confidence, and the authentic expression you long for.

Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, have to be a life sentence.
— Peter Levine

Many of the clients I work with have tried talk therapy, only to discover that it wasn’t possible to simply think or talk their way out of their trauma responses. 

This is not a knock on talk therapy! It is valuable work that I frequently recommend.

However, talk therapy is very different from somatic work, which has the power to directly communicate with non-verbal parts of the brain that are significantly impacted by trauma.

As a result of trauma, the body continues to act like it’s in danger, even though the danger has passed.  

To heal, it’s not enough to just know logically that you’re safe. You need to feel it in your body.

In private sessions, I incorporate Somatic Experiencing (SE) along with contemplative embodiment practices that support your ability to heal from trauma and:

  • Soothe, settle, and relax with greater ease

  • Connect to the needs and desires of your innermost self

  • Hold healthy boundaries with the people in your life

  • Express yourself authentically

  • Take empowered action to move your life forward in ways that are healthy and fulfilling 

  • Trust that you can meet life’s ups and downs

  • Be in satisfying, healthy relationships with others

  • Experience more pleasure, joy, and ease of well-being

 

Factors that make this shift possible:

  • Cultivating a strong body-mind connection: Your feelings, needs, and inner-most desires are all communicated via sensation. So, is your basic sense of safety. As you connect, expand, and skillfully respond to these feeling-states, healing happens. And, as your capacity to be present with your inner landscape grows, more pleasure, joy, and connection become possible.

  • Consistent practice: Body-based practices like Somatic Experiencing are powerful tools that shift habitual patterns of dysregulation in the nervous system. Gentle repetition of practices that regulate the nervous system, offered in bite-sized doses, is the best way to cultivate healthy and adaptive nervous system habits that lead to more ease.

  • Attuned support in a compassionately held container: Trauma that happens in unsafe relationships is healed in safe relationships. We are social animals, designed for co-regulation with one another. We were never meant to heal from trauma alone.

Hi. I’m Elena.

Embodiment and nervous system regulation have not always come easy to me.

Growing up, I often felt like a floating head, hardly noticing that I had a body at all. Either that, or the sensations in my body felt like a pressure cooker and made me want to explode (and oftentimes, I did!)

I grew up with undiagnosed complex trauma (CPTSD) stemming from a childhood that was all-too-often violent and terrifying. As a result, my nervous system got a lot of practice at being on high-alert and on edge, and/or heavily dissociating and collapsing into depression.

Throw in a chronic tendency to override my own boundaries in order to please others, and that was my nervous system in a nutshell.

In my early twenties, I was introduced to yoga and meditation while studying at the University of Vermont. These two practices initiated me on my healing journey and helped me I get in better touch with my body.

Gradually, I stopped feeling like a floating head quite so often. Better yet, I began to feel like an actual human, with an actual body. (Who would’ve thought?!) This was like discovering a missing puzzle piece, and it felt like a huge sigh of relief–at first!

But, the less I felt like a floating head, the more I felt like a pressure cooker. All the discomfort and emotional pain I was carrying became harder to ignore.

At first, I tried to keep breathing and meditating my way through it (because that’s what they tell you to do, right?!) But, no matter how much I practiced, small stressors continued to launch me into panic, agitation, or numbness.

Worse, sitting alone with these difficult feelings on my meditation cushion often exacerbated them until the intensity was off the charts. The feelings didn’t just pass “like fluffy clouds drifting through the open sky,” as the guided meditation recordings promised!

Instead, they often transformed into category 5 hurricanes. This is often the case with trauma. 

When I began therapy, my therapist quickly referred me to a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner to support my ability to be present with my feelings without having them spiral into something intolerable.

 

With Somatic Experiencing, my nervous system finally started to do something remarkable… It registered I was safe.

Safe to let my guard down.
Safe to feel.
Safe to have boundaries.
Safe to be vulnerable.
Safe to be authentic.
Safe to be human.
Safe to simply BE. 

 

It’s been over 15 years since I first started my healing journey. A bookworm and nerd at heart, I’ve dedicated myself to learning everything I can about embodiment and trauma healing. I’ve trained with leading experts in the field of trauma healing and have acquired practitioner certifications in evidence-based and evidence-supported trauma healing modalities, like Somatic Experiencing and Trauma Center Trauma Sensitive Yoga (TCTSY).

But equally valuable to my formal education is my own lived experience. I truly can’t imagine doing this work without having an experiential understanding of what it’s like to live with trauma, from the inside-out.

 What’s included in our work together?

First thing’s first: 

Prior to our first session, we’ll meet for a free 30-minute phone consultation where we can share some introductory information with one another to ensure that working together is a good-fit for both of us that meets your current goals. If we do choose to work together, you’ll be invited to schedule your first session. I can meet with clients virtually or at my office in Greenfield, MA.

Over the course of our first 5 sessions together, you’ll experience SE and will practice connecting to a sense of safety in your body in a supportive, gentle, trauma-sensitive container. You’ll learn key information about your nervous system and a variety of easy somatic practices that you can immediately start using.

Not only will you come to understand the inner workings of your nervous system much better, you’ll acquire a variety of tools and knowledge that you can use forever.

In these first 5 sessions you’ll gain:

  • Familiarity and practice with key SE concepts such as:

    • Internal and external resourcing

    • Tracking

    • Orienting

    • Pendulation

    • Titration

  • Somatic tools and practices that help deepen your brain-body-connection and regulate your nervous system

  • Handouts that describe key concepts that we discuss during our sessions, so you don’t have to remember everything

  • Optional exercises and embodiment practices that you can do between sessions

  • Free access to my online Somatic Practice Library

With the foundation we create in our early sessions, we pave the way for deeper layers of trauma healing to unfold. The total number of sessions that you do is always your choice.

Sliding scale pricing: 

First session: 90 minutes ($90-125)
Subsequent sessions: 60 minutes ($75-110)

Ready to schedule your free 30 minute consult?

This free meeting is neither a high-pressured sales call, nor a guarantee that we will work together. It is an opportunity for us to both make sure that collaborating feels like an aligned fit. If it doesn’t, I will provide referrals to other providers.